<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rss xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0" version="2.0"><channel><podcast:locked owner="javarisg-b@live.com">yes</podcast:locked><podcast:medium>podcast</podcast:medium><podcast:value type="lightning" method="keysend"><podcast:valueRecipient name="Disctopia" type="node" customKey="696969" customValue="vomToylBMHMsg503I2z5" address="030a58b8653d32b99200a2334cfe913e51dc7d155aa0116c176657a4f1722677a3" split="100" /></podcast:value><podcast:funding url="https://play.disctopia.com/podcasts/the-marriage-playbook">Support us on Disctopia!</podcast:funding><podcast:guid>d8f4d515-4116-4de2-962f-8e2e56f59536</podcast:guid><podcast:txt purpose="Disctopia Verification">D645034796</podcast:txt><podcast:license>All Rights Reserved</podcast:license><podcast:person role="host">Javaris Gooding-Butts &amp; Willie Haynes II</podcast:person><podcast:image href="https://cdn.disctopia.com/disc-podcasts/javarisgb538cedd70416947558fb70410cec0a345/the-marriage-playbook/disctopia-the-marriage-playbook-20220407203641-3000.jpg" width="3000" /><podcast:image href="https://cdn.disctopia.com/disc-podcasts/javarisgb538cedd70416947558fb70410cec0a345/the-marriage-playbook/disctopia-the-marriage-playbook-20220407203641-1400.jpg" width="1400" /><podcast:image href="https://cdn.disctopia.com/disc-podcasts/javarisgb538cedd70416947558fb70410cec0a345/the-marriage-playbook/disctopia-the-marriage-playbook-20220407203641-800.jpg" width="800" /><title>The Marriage Playbook</title><description>Come sit in our locker room as we discuss what plays have and haven't worked in our marriage. We are not Licensed or Marriage experts. We are two Millennial black husbands and fathers that are figuring out marriage day by day.</description><link>https://play.disctopia.com/podcasts/the-marriage-playbook</link><copyright>All rights reserved.</copyright><lastBuildDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2026 16:27:11 GMT</lastBuildDate><pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2026 16:27:11 GMT</pubDate><atom:link rel="self" href="https://play.disctopia.com/podcast/rss?channel=the-marriage-playbook" type="application/rss+xml" /><image><url>https://cdn.disctopia.com/disc-podcasts/javarisgb538cedd70416947558fb70410cec0a345/the-marriage-playbook/disctopia-the-marriage-playbook-20220407203641-1400.jpg</url><title>The Marriage Playbook</title><link>https://play.disctopia.com/podcasts/the-marriage-playbook</link></image><language>en</language><category>Society &amp; Culture</category><itunes:author>Javaris Gooding-Butts &amp; Willie Haynes II</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>The Marriage Playbook</itunes:name><itunes:email>javarisg-b@live.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:image href="https://cdn.disctopia.com/disc-podcasts/javarisgb538cedd70416947558fb70410cec0a345/the-marriage-playbook/disctopia-the-marriage-playbook-20220407203641-1400.jpg" /><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"><itunes:category text="Relationships" /></itunes:category><itunes:keywords>Marriage; Black; Male; Husbands; Fathers; Millennial; </itunes:keywords><item><title>The Best Play</title><itunes:title>The Best Play</itunes:title><link>https://play.disctopia.com/podcasts/the-marriage-playbook</link><guid isPermaLink="false">0c87aa5c-293a-419a-aa22-ebee68850d26</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode we discuss how prioritizing goals and the best approach in a marriage.&lt;/p&gt;
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</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>family; couples; marriage; relationship; religious; men; husbands; wives; sports</itunes:keywords><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title>Evolutionary Plays</title><itunes:title>Evolutionary Plays</itunes:title><link>https://play.disctopia.com/podcasts/the-marriage-playbook</link><guid isPermaLink="false">e6424aa1-a75c-4a68-87d8-99e7d4e5ccc1</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;This week in the locker room we reflect on what the year 2022 looked like for us and we look forward to how to be better for 2023.&lt;/p&gt;
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